17 May 2009     6th Sunday of Easter     John 15:9-17

 

"Pinky Love"

Trevor Wikre is a college football player, or at least he was one this past fall. He’s now close to graduating, if he hasn’t already. You could say that Trevor left everything out on the field when he banged bodies with the big heavies while playing offensive line for Division II Mesa State in Grand Junction, Colorado. Well, maybe not everything, but certainly at least one thing.

About midway through the 2008 season, Trevor was at practice one afternoon when his pinky finger got caught in a linebacker’s jersey on a sweep play. When the whistle blew, the lineman looked down to find the little digit bent at a horrific angle, the bone sticking out of the skin. Most guys would head straight to the locker room and call their mommies, but not Trevor, who told the trainer to, "Just tape it up. We’ve got practice to finish."

But the trainer finally convinced Trevor to go to the hospital, where doctors told him that they’d need to insert pins, repair ligaments, and make his finger look like a finger again. The prognosis? Four months to heal and no football. His season was over.

"No way," said Trevor. "This is my senior year. We’ve got to make this work. "We can’t," said the docs. "We can," insisted Trevor. "We can cut it off." Say what, now?

Trevor explains, if an explanation is really possible: "To have somebody tell you that you’ve played your last game of football, I just wasn’t going to let that happen. I couldn’t do that to my teammates. I’d take a bullet for those guys." Or, at least sacrifice the ability to button his shirts easily, hold a handful of M&Ms, type the letter "p" on a keyboard or look daintily sophisticated at a tea party.

So after signing what we can only speculate must have been a ream of consent forms, the docs gave Trevor his wish and amputated the broken digit. He still missed one game — "Some stupid thing like the stitches would rip," he growls — but then was back on the field for the rest of the season, which ended with Mesa State holding a 6-5 record.

Bizarre? Crazy? Yeah, but it gets even weirder. Trevor’s coach, Joe Ramunno, once did the same thing. He slashed his finger in a high-school shop class 29 years ago and insisted the docs cut it off so he wouldn’t miss his senior season. Picture Trevor and his coach giving each other a "high four" when the offense came off the field.

How do the people around Trevor feel about his sacrifice? Most of his teammates were awestruck by his commitment. "Amazing," said quarterback Phil Vigil. Others, particularly those nursing their own injuries, weren’t so keen. "Thanks a lot for making us look like sissies," said one. His mom was supportive and his fiancée, Traci, looked at the bright side. "I feel kinda good about it," she says, "I know that if he ever needs to sacrifice for our future, he’ll do it."

Here’s hoping that the wedding doesn’t cost Trevor an arm and a leg! For Trevor, who now aspires to coach football himself, it was all worth it. "When I think about how much I love football and my team, I just get goose bumps," he says. "I love my team.

And I’m a big believer in actions speaking louder than words."

A story like this gets everyone thinking, "Would I sacrifice a finger for the team?" In most cases, you have to believe the answer would be, "No." Football’s great and all but for most people, even most football players, we suspect, it’s a game and not worthy of the donation of any body parts. Still, on some level, you have to admire a guy like Trevor who was willing to make a long-term sacrifice for the good of the whole team.

But what if the stakes were higher? Many are the stories of soldiers, for example, who threw themselves on a grenade or jumped in front of machine-gun fire to protect a buddy. We read the accounts of martyrs and others throughout history who sacrificed their very lives for the sake of others or in service to a cause beyond themselves. A pinky is one thing; a life is another. What kind of love does it take to make the ultimate sacrifice? What kind of team is worth that level of commitment?

"Greater love has no one than this," said Jesus to his team of disciples, "that someone lays down one’s life for his friends."

Argue if you want that Trevor Wikre was crazy, stupid or brave — or perhaps a combination of all the above. But Jesus said that there’s no greater love that one can have for another than to give one’s life.

If anyone can teach us what it really means to take one for the team it’s Jesus, whose words here foreshadow the pain of the cross. Jesus, in fact, spoke several times about what he was going to be required to do on behalf of the whole team; not just for the disciples but for all of humanity. In the synoptic gospels, particularly Matthew and Mark, much of the narrative is structured around Jesus’ three predictions of his death and the disciples’ incredulous (and clueless) reactions.

In John’s gospel, Jesus uses the phrase "lay down my life" several times to describe what he has been called to do. In John 10, in the midst of the Good Shepherd discourse, Jesus says, "I lay down my life" for his sheep. "No one takes it from me, but I lay it down of my own accord" (John 10:17-18). The protection and nurture of his flock was his mission, and worth the price of his own life.

Jesus reiterates that statement here in John 15 as part of what we might call a continuation of last weeks "I am the vine" discourse, but explains it not in terms of protection, but in terms of love. The reason that Jesus is willing to have his own life cut off is "love" for his "friends." In verses 13 and 14, Jesus calls us friends, in the Greek: “φίλοί” from the verb “φίλείη” which is the fraternal love between or among human beings.

"As the Father has loved me," said Jesus, "so I have loved you. Abide in my love." Jesus’ own idea of friendship was defined and shaped by God’s love for him. Jesus was "one who was loved" by God: chosen, equipped, guided, embraced and held all the way from the manger to the tomb. As that love shaped and defined Jesus’ life and ministry, so would Jesus’ love shape and define his team of disciples, both then and now. "You did not choose me but I chose you," Jesus reminds us in verse 16.

To be a "friend" of Jesus, then, means to be one who is loved in a sacrificial way. But it also means following Jesus’ example. "This is my

commandment," says Jesus to his disciples, "that you love one another as I have loved you" (v. 12). We must love others sacrificially, too, being willing to lay down our own lives as Jesus did for us. That’s a hard teaching, in many ways, but maybe we see it that way because we ourselves have not fully embraced the love that Jesus has given us. We cannot truly learn to love until we have been loved ourselves.

Even before his pinky incident, Trevor Wikre was not likely to ever be a prospect for the NFL. It wasn’t a self-serving career that he sacrificed his pinky for, but a moment in time. He loves football and loved his teammates, and we have to assume that in his four years at Mesa State, his coach and fellow players loved him a whole lot, too. We shake our heads in disbelief and maybe even in disgust at what he did, but we have to remember that people will do just about anything for someone when they are truly loved.

Jesus did it for us because he was loved into it by God. We can do it for others because we have been loved into it by Christ.

For Jesus, "laying down" his life meant a painful physical sacrifice. It meant the sinless Son of God would have to suffer and die on the cross, after he was beaten and mocked and tortured. We may never be called to do that for another, but there are lots of ways of laying down our lives that don’t involve death or organ donation. We may need to amputate our personal ambitions in order to do what’s best for our families. We might be called to give sacrificially of our hard-earned money in order to care for someone who is experiencing a crushing need. We may experience a call to give up a lucrative career in order to pursue a ministry that serves people the rest of the world has forgotten.

There are a thousand ways we can lay down our lives on behalf of Jesus, but we’ll only be able to do it if we are willing to receive his love for us. We can’t earn it, only receive it and allow it to transform us. It’s only then that we, as friends of Jesus, will be able to "bear fruit" that will last.

John Henry Jowett told about a small village where an elderly woman died. She died penniless, uneducated, unsophisticated, but during her lifetime her selfless service had made a tremendous impact for Christ. On her tombstone they chiseled the words, "She did what she couldn’t."

That can be the epitaph for every Christian who will allow Christ to live through them: He can do through us what we can never do ourselves.

Jesus was born into this world to save sinners. His life, His passion, His crucifixion and His resurrection proclaim He has defeated sin, death, and devil. Now anyone who is given faith is forgiven and saved.

Think about the price for this redemption of our sinful souls. Winning our salvation cost Jesus His holy, precious blood; it meant His innocent suffering and death. It cost Jesus everything, but it costs us absolutely nothing. We Christians are freely saved by God's grace.

Trevor Wikre gave his friends on the team a pinky. That might not have been a good thing. Jesus gave his friends his own life. That was definitely a good thing. Empowered by the Holy Spirit and by our God-given faith in what Christ has done for us, what are we prepared to give as friends of Jesus? Amen

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